Rahmah – Not just ‘Mercy’
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- by Adnan Majid - 
Bismillah'l-Raḥmān'l-Raḥīm
As the Qurʾān's first verse, the invocation above (known as the basmallah) is our gateway to divine revelation and our companion when beginning any activity. Its first part defines an essential element of Muslim identity – to approach all matters “in the name of Allāh.” Its ending, listing two of Allāh's names, beautifully repeats the sounds r-ḩ-m in a way striking even to non-Arabic speakers.
Both these names of Allāh center on the Arabic quality of rahmah: (a) al-Raḥmān, the One who is defined by complete and universal rahmah[1] and (b) al-Raḥīm, the One who continuously shows much rahmah. It is thus by His rahmah that Allāh introduces Himself repeatedly throughout the Qurʾān, so much so that after His tawhid (Oneness), the Qurʾān uses no other quality to describe Allāh more than rahmah.[2] This only underscores how central rahmah is to Islamic theology and our relationship with Allāh.
So what is rahmah?
Our first answer may be that rahmah should be rendered as “mercy,” a word preferred in many Qurʾān translations. This, however, may be problematic. Although “mercy” is included in the meanings of rahmah, the modern English usage of “mercy” fails to do justice to the Arabic word in my opinion. Rather, I will argue that we speakers of modern English must understand rahmah as Allāh's Messenger understood the term – not simply as “mercy” but something deeper – an emotion  closely tied with motherhood.
“Mercy” in modern English
Ask a native English speaker to describe his or her mother, and one often will hear adjectives like “loving” or “caring.”  By contrast, native English speakers would rarely describe their mothers as “merciful.” Doing so sounds a bit odd to many of us, but why? The answer lies in the fact that “mercy” in modern English is associated with the negative connotation of the “power to harm,” something we do not associate with motherhood. Let's look at the following definition from the Oxford Advanced Learner's Dictionary[3]:
  1. A kind and forgiving attitude towards somebody that you have the power to harm or right to punish.
             a)      to ask/beg/plead for mercy
             b)      They showed no mercy to their hostages.
             c)      God have mercy on us.
            d)      The troops are on a mercy mission (a journey to help people) in the war zone.
  1. An event or a situation to be grateful for, usually because it stops something unpleasant.
            a)      It's a mercy she wasn't seriously hurt.
           b)      His death was a mercy (because he was in great pain).
From an Islamic standpoint, Allāh is indeed merciful. Allāh is kind and forgiving towards us while having the power to harm us and the right to punish us for our sins. But the Arabic term rahmah is not limited to “mercy” in the encompassing manner by which the Prophet used the term.
Let's consider instances where we use “mercy” in modern English. For instance, if a ruthless dictator decides to stop killing innocent people temporarily, he would have shown them “mercy,” even if his primary motivation is political and not based on a sincere emotional desire to alleviate suffering. And if a cold-hearted murderer decides against killing a terrified victim, he too would have shown “mercy.” As we shall see, neither case would necessarily constitute rahmah.
We plead for “mercy” from police who can fine us, judges who can punish us, rulers who can overpower us, and murderers who can kill us. But the Messenger never spoke of such fearful people when describing Allāh's rahmah. Instead he reminded us of our mothers and the familiar emotions they show us – emotions we call “compassion” or “nurturing love.”
Rahmah according to Allāh's Messenger
In the Prophet's many sayings about rahmah on earth, the central theme of nurturing, parental love clearly stands out. Allāh's rahmah, according to the Messenger, is the sole source of all earthly rahmah, such that all creatures show “love and kindness to one another, and even a beast treats her young with affection.”[4] Rahmah thus finds its most natural expression in the love of a mother.
And no one can match a mother's love… except, of course, Allāh. Imagine the emotions of a mother desperately searching for a lost child – and how much joy she must feel finding her child again. On witnessing this, the Messenger asked his companions, “Can you imagine this woman throwing her baby into fire?” When his companions responded in disbelief, he taught them, “Allāh has more rahmah for His servants than this mother for her child.”[5]Once again, the Prophet saw rahmah as an emotion we have all experienced – not the modern English “mercy” but a mother's natural love.
Of course,  this connection of rahmah and motherly love is linguistically unsurprising, forrahmah is related to the Arabic word rahm, which means “uterus,” “womb,” and figuratively “family ties.” This close linguistic connection is so eloquently expressed in Allāh's statement as transmitted in a hadith qudsi, “I am al-Raḥmān and created the rahm (uterus) – And I named it after Me.”[6] Therefore, if we are to grasp the rahmah that is core to God's very nature, we must look to what this feminine organ symbolizes – the nurturing emotions we find in mothers and the bonds that tie families together. However, mothers are not the only ones characterized by rahmah; the Prophet himself embodied the quality when he would hug his grandchildren,[7] kissing them.
In the patriarchal Bedouin culture of his day, this was considered an effeminate characteristic.“I have ten children and have never kissed any of them!” retorted a proud, disapproving Bedouin. But the Messenger, knowing the beauty of parental love in Allāh's eyes, warned the man, “He who shows no rahmah will be shown no rahmah (in the hereafter).”[8],[9] And in another instance, he reiterated, “He who has no rahmah for children is not one of us.”[10]
“And God will show rahmah but to His servants who show rahmah,” said the Prophet, his eyes filled with tears as he held his dying granddaughter. When asked about these tears, he simply explained, “This is rahmah that God places in the hearts of His servants.”[11] This was a most natural emotion so familiar to us – again, not “mercy” but what we would call a grandfather's “love.”
The Messenger's mission was that we might truly know Allāh, al-Raḥmān, in the very language of personal experience. To help us comprehend Allāh's rahmah, he did not speak of the earthly “mercy” of kings and judges – today's modern English understanding of “mercy.” Rather, his demonstrations of rahmah directed us again and again to parental love, especially motherly love.
Is rahmah then “love”?
Yes and no. Although rahmah, according to the Messenger, is indeed a form of love, we should be very careful shifting our dependence from one imperfect translation (“mercy”) to another imperfect translation (“love”). “Love” is a very general term in modern English – we speak not only of “nurturing love,” but also “platonic love,” “romantic love,” “desirous love,” the “love of food,” and the “love of money.” These all signify different forms of “love.”
In contrast to English, Arabic uses a number of words to express these different forms of love, including hubb, mahabbah, wudd, and mawaddah. While the Messenger describedAllāh's rahmah as a compassionate, nurturing love; Allāh's hubb is a love merited to those conscious of Him,[12] perfecting their deeds,[13] turning back after their mistakes, and always trying to purify themselves.[14] Whereas Allāh's rahmah in this world is universal, embracing everything,[15] Allāh does not have hubb for those who commit aggression,[16]oppression,[17] and corruption.[18]
I am not arguing that the English-speaking Muslim community should settle on onealternative translation for rahmah which will serve to substitute “mercy.” In fact, no perfect translation may exist. However, if we seek to understand rahmah as the Messenger taught us, we may better understand revelation so as to clearly convey the divine message to others.
Dialogue with Christians
In our society, we Muslims must accurately convey Islam's message to our non-Muslim peers. Though we should be very careful to not simply translate rahmah as “love,” understanding rahmah as a form of love is important whenever engaging in dialogue with Christians. Some Christians disparage the Qurʾān by claiming it rarely mentions “love” whereas the New Testament is translated to state, “God is love.”[19] We can readily see that this argument is weak when we take the Messenger's understanding of rahmah, one of the Qurʾān's central themes.
And most interestingly, many Christians are unaware that the Bible's understanding of “love” is not today's general, modern English understanding of “love”! Just as in Arabic, biblical Greek had many different words that signified the various types of love. Let's look at an analysis of this from a Christian website:
The Bible speaks of different kinds of love. Perhaps the most dominant usage of the word “love” in Western society refers essentially    to sexual love but is not found in the New Testament. One kind of love that the Bible does speak of is a friendship sort of love. This is expressed by the Greek word “philia.” It is a preferential type of love and not much different than a person saying that theylove chocolate ice cream. “Agape” love however is the most common form of love in the Bible. It might be more likened to the sacrificial love a parent has for their child regardless of whether such love is reciprocated…[20]
It may seem that Christian “love” in the Bible – agapē – could actually be more similar torahmah and not other Arabic words like hubb. By contrast, hubb may correspond more to the Greek philia.[21] Though no two languages can ever match perfectly, both rahmah andagapē are non-desirous, nurturing forms of love that God expresses universally.[22]
In light of this, the Qurʾān's emphasis on rahmah in dialogue with Christians stands out. For instance, the Qurʾān commends the early followers of Christ, may peace be upon him, by saying Allāh put rahmah, not hubb, in their hearts.[23] And consider the high frequency ofAllāh's name al-Raḥmān in Surah Maryam, a chapter named after Jesus' mother Mary, peace be upon them.[24] Is the Qurʾān, while vehemently rejecting the notion that God has any need for a son, using this repetition to remind Christians that He remains the source of universal agapē as discussed in their religious texts? If so, it underscores the importance conveying the prophetic understanding of rahmah whenever giving da'wah to non-Muslims.[25]
Rahmah, our salvation and our obligation
If Christianity is said to be a “religion of love (agapē),” Islam is unquestionably the “Religion of Rahmah.” In this present world, Allāh's rahmah is universal, “having embraced everything.”[26] Moreover, the Messenger's purpose is eloquently described as “rahmah to the worlds.”[27] In the hereafter, Allāh's rahmah is synonymous with salvation,[28] for no one can be saved, not even the Messenger, except by Allāh's rahmah alone.[29],[30]
This should give us a moment to reflect. Remember, with regards to the hereafter, the Messenger warned us, “He who shows no rahmah will be shown no rahmah,” and taught us, “God will show rahmah but to His servants who show rahmah.” If rahmah is the means to our salvation, having rahmah towards one another is an obligation upon each of us. We must take the Prophet's commandment to heart:
Al-Raḥmān has rahmah for those who show rahmah. Show rahmah to those on earth – the One in heaven will show you rahmah.[31]
If one wants to learn how to show rahmah to those on earth, look to someone who shows compassion to others the way our mothers love and nurture us – someone who lets his or her tears flow in empathy, feeling the pain of the poor, hungry, and oppressed. Rahmahdoes not simply mean showing people “mercy” – restraining from harming while having the capacity to hurt. This “mercy” only scrapes the surface of rahmah, which must come from the heart. Neither does rahmah exclusively mean showing hubb to those who commit evil and oppression, “loving” what they do and “liking” to please them.
Instead, rahmah is to let one's heart ache for those people, caring about their eternal well-being, so that we may all enter Allāh's rahmah, His salvation, in the hereafter. Rahmah is to embody the way of the Messenger, who said, “I was not sent to curse, but I was sent as arahmah.”[32]
Last word: Hope
God's revelation is timeless and should resonate with us always. It thus becomes the obligation of each generation to understand that revelation in the language of our own personal experiences. Unfortunately, our dependence on the modern English “mercy” as a translation of rahmah may be faulty and inadequate. All the Messenger's descriptions ofrahmah point to something deeper, something we are familiar with, something we readily know as “compassion” or “nurturing love.”[33]
With this understanding, how much more amazing are the Qurʾān's words – that rain israhmah, that revelation is rahmah, and that the Messenger himself is rahmah. We suddenly see all these blessings as God's deep expressions of compassionate love.
To conclude, we should always remember that rahmah is Allāh's very nature and our only means to salvation, and this should always be a cause of immense relief and hope. For as the Qurʾān and hadith qudsi relate:
And when there comes to you those who believe in Our signs, say, “Peace be upon you. Your Lord has prescribed rahmah on Himself: that any of you who does wrong out of ignorance and then turns back and makes amends – He is indeed forgiving, Raḥīm (full of rahmah).”[34]
Proclaim: “O My servants who have laid waste to their own souls, never lose hope in Allāh's rahmah. Allāh forgives all sins entirely. Allāh is forgiving,Raḥīm.”[35]
When God completed creation, He inscribed with Himself: “My rahmah has triumphed over My anger.”[36]

[1] Ibn Kathir records from Ibn Jarir al-Tabari that al-Rahmaan refers to universal rahmah with all creation and al-Raḥīm refers to a special rahmah for the believers (Huwa al-Rahmaan li jamee'i l-khalq, wa al-Raḩeem bil-mu'mineena khaassah).
[2] God describes Himself and His actions through rahmah numerously in the Qurʾān. In addition to the names al-Raḥmān and al-Raḥīm at the start of all but one chapter, the name al-Raḥmān occurs 64 more times and the description of Raḥīm occurs an additional 114 times (although once in reference to the Messenger). God's Rahmah is explicitly mentioned an additional 116 times. With other references toAllāh's Rahmah (arḩamu r-ráḩimeen, khairu r-ráḩimeen, or uses of the verb yarḩam), the concept ofrahmah in the Qurʾān occurs at least 545 times.
[4] Abu Hurairah relates that Allāh's Messenger said, “Allāh's rahmah has one hundred parts. He sends down one part of rahmah for the jinn, humans, animals, and insects such that they love and show kindness to one another. And even a beast treats her young with affection. And Allāh saves ninety-nine parts of Rahmah for his servants on the Day of Resurrection.” And in a similar narration, “Because of this one part of rahmah, there is mutual love among creation that a mare lifts its hooves from her young for fear of harming it.” (Muslim, who deemed it sound, and others)
[5] 'Umar ibn al-Khattab relates once being with Allāh's Messenger with a group of women and children detained after battle. One woman among them was searching for her child. Whenever she saw any child, she took the child to her bosom and began breastfeeding it. The Messenger asked his companions, “Do you think this woman would throw her child into fire?” They said, “No, by Allāh, unless she has no power otherwise.” He replied, “Allāh has more rahmah (arham) for His servants than this woman for her child.” (Muslim, who deemed it sound, and others)
[6] Related by the Messenger through 'Abdur Raḥmān ibn 'Auf. The hadeeth qudsi continues, “I have drawn close one who has drawn it (the raḩm) close (maintaining family ties) and have cut off one who has cut it off (breaking family ties).” (Ahmad, who deemed its chain sound, and others)
[7] 'Usama ibn Zaid relates that as a child, the Messenger used to put Hasan and him on his lap, hug them, and pray, “O Allāh, have rahmah for them (irhamhuma) as I have rahmah for them (arhamuhuma).” (Bukhāri, who deemed it sound, and others)
[8] Man lá yarham, lá yurhim. Abu Huraira relates that the man was Aqra' ibn Habis at-Tanim, who was sitting besides the Messenger when he kissed his grandson Hasan. (Bukhāri, who deemed it sound, and others)
[9] In a similar narration, 'A'isha relates that Bedouins visited and said, “You all kiss children! We never do that.” The Prophet replied, “What can I do for you if Allāh removed rahmah from your heart?” (Bukhāri, who deemed it sound, and others)
[10] 'Anas ibn Malik relates that when the people were slow to attend to an old man, the Messenger said, “One who does not show children rahmah or respect the elderly is not one of us.” (Tirmidhi, who deemed it sound, and others)
[11] Innamaa yarhamulláhu 'ibaadahu al-ruhamaa. Related by 'Usama ibn Zaid. When the Messenger began weeping as his dying granddaughter gasped for air, some of his companions, such as Sa'ad ibn 'Ubada, initially expressed surprise. (Bukhāri, who deemed it sound, and others)
[12] Qurʾān 3:76
[13] Qurʾān 2:195
[14] Qurʾān 2:222
[15] My punishment (in this world) strikes whom I wish, but My Rahmah has embraced/enveloped everything (Qurʾān 7:156).
[16] Qurʾān 2:190
[17] Qurʾān 3:57
[18] Qurʾān 5:64
[19] Ho Theòs agápē estín, in Greek. First Epistle of John, 4:8. Interestingly, this verse is translated as “God is charity” in the King James Version in order to distinguish agápē from the general English understanding of “love.”
[20] Emphasis mine, with minor grammatical corrections, from Berean Christian Bible Study Resources. “An Analysis of Agape Love.” February 10, 2009. (Accessed at http://www.bcbsr.com/topics/love1.html)
[21] Phília is the Greek root from which we get words such as philosophy (love of knowledge), philanthropy(love of people), and anglophile (lover of English).
[22] There are undoubtedly linguistic differences between how rahmah is used in 7th-century Arabic and how agápē is used in 1st-century Koine Greek – no two languages are perfectly matched in meaning. However, I'd like to use this space to illustrate why the relationship between the two terms maybe more than just a coincidence. The question I raise is the following: Would Christians in 7th-century Syria or Yemen hearing the Qurʾān for the first time recognize rahmah as something similar to the agápē of the New Testament? I will argue that this may indeed be the case, with the following evidence:
Firstly, although rahmah is an Arabic term, speakers of closely related Semitic languages like Hebrew, Aramaic, and Syriac would have recognized the three-letter r-ḩ-m root formation from their own languages. The root itself does appear in the Hebrew/Aramaic Bible (Old Testament) as רחם. Here's the entry from theGesenius's Hebrew and Chaldee Lexicon to the Old Testament Scripture (1881), which I have copied from the Islamic Awareness website (cited below) and which can also be found athttp://www.blueletterbible.org/lang/lexicon/Lexicon.cfm?strongs=H7355:
The above definitions of “love of parents towards their children” and  “the compassion of God towards men” are precisely in line with the Messenger's own usage of rahmah in Arabic.
This Semitic correspondence relates directly to the Greek termagape used in the New Testament. In order to understand the New Testament in their own Semitic tongue, early Syrian Christians translated the Greek text into the Syriac Peshittabeginning around the 2nd century. These pre-Islamic Christians often used the r-ḩ-m root (written as  in Syriac) as one translation for the agápē verb-form (although they sometimes also used the ḩ-b root as well). Please consider these Gospel verses followed by the old Syriac translations obtained fromhttp://www.aramaicpeshitta.com/aramaic_nt_resources.htm where words with the r-ḩ-m root are boxed (remember, Syriac like Arabic is read right to left):
Matthew 22:36-40 – “Teacher, which is the greatest commandment of the Law?” Jesus replied, “'Love (agapḗseis) the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind.' This is the first and greatest commandment. And the second is like it: 'Love (agapḗseis) your neighbor as yourself.' All the Law and the Prophets hand on these two commandments.”
John 14:21 – (Jesus says:) “Whoever has my commands and keeps them is the one who loves (agapȏn) me. Anyone who loves (agapȏn) me will be loved (agapēthḗsetai) by my Father, and I too will love (agapḗsō) them and show myself to them.”
Thus, 7th-century Syrian Christians first hearing the Qurʾān may have immediately recognized rahmah as connoting their familiar Greek equivalent: agápē.
What about Arabic-speaking Christians before Islam? Interestingly, note that the name al-Raḥmān was unfamiliar to the pagan Arabs of Mecca. Suhail ibn 'Amr, for instance, admitted, “We do not know what is meant by Bismillah'l-Raḥmān'l-Raḥīm,” when objecting to the term in the treaty of Hudaybiya (Muslim and others). By contrast, there is evidence from pre-Islamic inscriptions that al-Raḥmān was used as God's name by Christians and Jews in Southern Arabia, such as those of Najran. (Please see this fascinating review by MSM Saifullah and 'Abdullah David at Islamic Awareness: http://www.islamic-awareness.org/Qurʾān/Sources/Allāh/rhmnn.html.) As we shall soon see, the name al-Raḥmān is used with high frequency in Surah Maryam. Could this be to address a Christian Arab population (and maybe also the Abyssinian Christians to whom Ja'far Ibn Abi Talib recited Surah Maryam on the First Emigration) using the very names of God they are familiar with?
[23] Wa ja'alná fee quloobi lladheena t-taba'oohu ra'fatan wa rahmah (Qurʾān 57:27).
[24] The name al-Raḥmān occurs in Surah Maryam an amazing 16 times, much higher in frequency than any other part of the Qurʾān. Consider the following verses:
That day We will gather the God-conscious to al-Raḥmān as honored guests and will drive criminals to hell thirsty. None will have the benefit of intercession except those who have made a bond with al-Raḥmān. And yet they have said, “Al-Raḥmān has taken a son”! Indeed you claim something monstrous – as though the skies would tear apart, the earth split asunder, and the mountains collapse in ruin – that they have ascribed to al-Raḥmān a son! For how inconceivable it is that al-Raḥmān could have a son! Indeed, none comes before al-Raḥmān except as a servant. (Surah Maryam 19:85-93)
[25] Not only Christians, but also Buddhists, for whom rahmah is precisely the Pali concept metta(Sanskrit maitri). Consider the Metta Sutta: “Even as a mother protects with her life her child, her only child, so with a boundless heart one should cherish all living beings.” Buddhists translate metta into “compassion” or “loving-kindness” to differentiate it from plain “love,” which can be desirous and harmful to the self.
[26] See above. Qurʾān 7:156
[27] Wa má arsalnáka illá raḩmatan li l-'álameen (Qurʾān 22:107)
[28] Abu Hurairah relates that the Messenger said, “The Garden (paradise) and Fire (hell) quarreled before their Lord. The Garden said, 'Lord, what's wrong with me that only the poor and humble enter me?' And the Fire boasted, 'I have been favored to inherit the arrogant.' So Allāh told the Garden, 'You are My rahmah,' and told the Fire, 'You are My punishment, which I inflict upon whomever I wish. And both of you will have your fill.'” (Bukhāri, who deemed it sound, and others)
[29] 'A'isha relates that God's Messenger said, “Observe moderation, and if you can't observe it perfectly, try your best. And be happy (hopeful), because no one can enter the Garden on account of one's deeds alone.” They said, “O Messenger of Allāh, not even you?” He said, “Not even me, unless Allāh envelops me in His rahmah. And remember that the deed most loved by God is the one done constantly even though it's small.” (Muslim, who deemed it sound)
[30] And Abu Hurairah relates that God's Messenger said, “None of your deeds can save you.” They said, “Not even you, O Messenger of God?” He said, “No, not even me, unless God bestows His rahmah upon me. So do good deeds properly, sincerely, and moderately, and worship God in the morning and afternoon and during part of the night. And always adopt a middle, moderate, regular course to reach your goal.” (Bukhāri, who deemed it sound)
[31] Al-raahimoon, yarhamuhumu al-Rahmaan – urhamoo man fi l-arḍ, yarhamkum man fi s-samá'. The English translation fails to do justice to the poetic beauty of the Prophet's statement, related by 'Abdullah ibn 'Amr ibn al-'As. The narration continues, “The uterus (rahm) derives from al-Raḥmān. Allāh has drawn close one who has drawn her close and has cut off one who has cut her off.” (Tirmidhi, who deemed it good and sound, and others)
[32] Related by Abu Hurairah when someone had urged the Messenger to send a curse upon the polytheists. (Muslim, who deemed it sound, and others)
[33] Though again, we should be careful to simply call it “love” without specifying its form.
[34] Qul: salaamun 'alaikum. Inna Rabbakum kataba 'alaa nafsihi al-rahmah (Qurʾān 6:54).
[35] Qul: yaa 'ibaadi alladheena asrafoo 'alá anfusihim, lá taqnaţoo min rahmatilláh. (Qurʾān 39:53).
[36] Related by Messenger through Abu Huraira. Narrations use ghalabat (has triumphed/won over),sabaqat (has excelled over/raced past), or taghlib (triumphs/wins over) and may additionally mention Allāh“upon the Throne.” (Bukhāri, who deemed it sound, and others)
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