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Wahai wanita..
Sesungguhnya kejadianmu terlalu unik,tercipta dari tulang rusuk. Adam yang bengkok menghiasi taman-taman indah lantas menjadi perhatian sang kumbang, kau umpama sekuntum bunga, harum aromamu menarik sang kumbang untuk mendekatimu. Namun, bukan semua bunga mampu menarik kumbang jika terdapat cacat cela.
Jadi, antara ciri~ciri wanita idaman lelaki adalah :
1. Berpegang Kepada Agama
Wanita yang berpegang kepada agama mempunyai keperibadian yang unggul. Batas-batas syariat yang dipegang dan terpelihara dalam hidupnya mengangkat martabat dirinya sebagai seorang yang layak dikagumi oleh lelaki.
Dia tidak akan melakukan sesuatu yang bertentangan dengan syariah Islam. Memang beruntung mana-mana lelaki yang beristeri dengan wanita sebegini.
2. Kecantikan Dalaman
Wanita yang tulen adalah lemah lembut dalam perwatakannya tetapi mempunyai prinsip dalam hidup. Inilah kecantikan dalaman yang dicari oleh ramai lelaki. Kalau cantik, tu dikira sebagai BONUS.
Wanita yang mempunyai kecantikan dalaman tidak akan sesekali menjual maruah dirinya hanya untuk mencari nama dan wang. Mereka tidak akan sesekali tunduk pada nafsu atau berbuat sesuatu semata-mata kerana mahukan harta dan kekayaan.
Allaah The Almighty Says (what means):
· {O you who have believed, fear Allaah as He should be feared and do not die except as Muslims [in submission to Him].} [Quran 3:102]
· {O you who have believed, fear Allaah and speak words of appropriate justice. He will [then] amend for you your deeds and forgive you your sins. And whoever obeys Allaah and His Messenger has certainly attained a great attainment.}[Quran 33:71]
A regrettable problem has surfaced in our societies, and scholars are receiving complaints from righteous women about the trouble they are facing in their commununities. Who is troubling our sisters? Jews? Christians? Secularists? No, unfortunately, these provocations are from some Muslims, may Allaah The Almighty guide us all.
This problem is not widespread so far, but one worries that it might escalate to an extent that we will not be able to treat it. Thus, it is best to tell those who criticize righteous sisters: When you criticize righteous sisters, you are criticizing the Sunnah (tradition) of the Prophet, sallallaahu ‘alayhi wa sallam.
When you criticize a certain person, the criticism is not directed to the person himself, but to the methodology that he adopts. Such conduct could be quite serious because some of the criticism or mockery may be regarded as disbelief in Allaah The Almighty Who Says (what means): {Say, "Is it Allaah and His verses and His Messenger that you were mocking?" Make no excuse; you have disbelieved after your belief.} [Quran 9:65, 66]
The Prophet, sallallaahu ‘alayhi wa sallam, said: “A man may heedlessly utter a word that angers Allaah with him, which makes him fall in Hell for seventy years.”[At-Tirmithi, Ibn Maajah and Ahmad]
Such conduct has serious repercussions not just for the observant Muslim woman alone, but for the person who mocks her as well, because it may lead to the loss of their religion if they do not turn to Allaah The Almighty in repentance.
Being observant and religious is the right thing to do, whereas religious non-observance and mocking observant people is extremism and deviation.
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