Ada yang yang berpendapat, manusia hidup bertujuan untuk menyelesaikan pelbagai masalah. Bangun sahaja pagi-pagi, sudah memikirkan apa yang dimakan hari ini, berapa banyak rezeki yang akan diperoleh, krisis dengan manusia dan sebagainya. Ini semua punca stres.

Hairan, manusia hakikatnya tidak sedar bahawa mereka sebenarnya lebih kerap stres kerana risaukan urusan dunia, bukan kerana risaukan urusan akhirat. Bukan begitu? Jarang yang berasa tertekan kerana belum lagi solat ataupun tertinggal solat. Jarang yang risau andai sehari yang berlalu dalam hidupnya tidak diisi dengan amalan soleh yang boleh menyelamatkannya daripada azab akhirat.

Lihat Nabi Adam a.s., saat diarahkan keluar dari syurga dan diturunkan ke dunia, tangis Nabi Adam a.s. berpanjangan. Baginda merintih dan merayu dalam doanya. Nabi Adam tertekan kerana kesal dengan dosanya.

Lihat pula kepada Rasulullah, Baginda pernah tidak dapat tidur malam kerana tidak bersedekah dalam satu hari. Tetapi manusia lain sebaliknya, tertekan dan tidak dapat tidur malam memikirkan wangnya akan berkurangan kerana bersedekah.

Kita bagaimana? Jika memilih untuk rasa stres, pilihlah untuk stres kerana akhirat berbanding stres risaukan urusan dunia.

Looking attentively to the biography of the Prophet – peace be upon him – you will find that he was extending a great deal respect to his wives and was paying high attention, care and love toward them.

He was the best example for the ideal manners toward the wife. He was comforting his wives, wiping their tears, respecting their emotions, hearing their words, caring for their complaints, alleviating their sadness, going in picnics with them, racing with them, bearing their abandonment, discussing matters with them, keeping their dignity, supporting them in emergencies, declaring his love to them and was very happy with such love. Here are some attractive examples and shining moments in his life:

Knowing their Feelings 

The Prophet – Peace be upon him – was telling Aisha – May Allah be pleased with her: "I know well when you are pleased or angry from me. Aisha replied: How you know that? He said: When you are pleased with me you swear by saying "By the God of Mohammad" but when you are angry you swear by saying "By the God of Ibrahim". She said: You are right, I just desert you name. In another narration the same tradition ended by saying: "No, by the God of Ibrahim".


Narrated by: Aisha – Degree: Right – the narrator: Muslim – The Source: Al-Musnad Al-Sahih – Page or number: 2439

Understanding their Jealousy & Love 


Umm Salama – May Allah be pleased with her – narrated: she brought food in a dish of her own to the Prophet – Peace be upon him – and his companions. Seeing that, Aisha came holding a tool and broke the dish out of jealousy. Understanding the situation, the Prophet took the two halves of the dish and said to his companions: Eat your food, it is just the jealousy of your mother, then the Prophet took the dish of Aisha and gave it to Um Salama and gave the dish of Um Salama to Aisha. 


Narrated by: Um Salama – Degree: Right – the narrator: Al-Albani – The Source: Sahih Al-Nasa'i – Page or number: 3966

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